Vaccine to Prevent your Children From Becoming Homosexuals.

Inoculate your children NOW!

"A former homosexual who has carried on an effective ministry for five years among homosexuals reported, 'I have counseled over three hundred homosexuals and have yet to find one that enjoyed a warm love relationship with his father.'"

Introduction:

1.  How can I prevent my children from becoming homosexual?

a.  There is a "vaccination" for homosexuality!

b.  But first, you must realize that no one is born homosexual and being homosexual is a moral choice.

c.  "How many psychologists does it take to change a light bulb? The answer: Only one, but the light bulb has to really want to change. Many pastors, like Carl, find this to be true with homosexuals. The number one criterion for the success in crisis intervention is the desire of the homosexual person to change. Without that, all the good intentions and techniques by the counselor will have little effect. That desire to rebuild from ground up evidently was missing in Ted." (J. D. Berkley, Called into crisis, 1989, Vol. 18, p 103)

2.         Less than 1% are homosexual!

a.       A new Statistics Canada health survey is the first to effort to measure the sexual orientation of the population.

b.       According to figures from the Canadian Community Health Survey, released Tuesday June 15, 2004, one per cent of Canadians say they are homosexual.

c.        The Canadian Community Health Survey, is based on information collected from 135,000 people and is considered to be extremely accurate.

d.       Homosexual activists continue to use the 10% figure, even though they know is as invalid as it is a deliberate fraudulent.

3.         Vaccination for homosexuality? YES!

a.       The vaccination for homosexuality is in fact this: Fathers, spend time with your children and hug and kiss and cuddle them and show them love and affection!

b.       While worldly fathers are so afraid to hug, kiss and cuddle their sons for fear they turn him into a sissy.

c.     The opposite is in fact true! Fathers in the world worry about their sons becoming homosexual and emotionally withdraw and become tough and macho with their sons. This will actually make your children more likely to turn into homosexuals!

d.  Amazingly, Hollywood movies and sit-coms have begun to cast their frequent homosexual characters as having normal loving relationships with their fathers. Just another example of how producers of Hollywood are attempting to change society's views contrary to the facts of homosexuality.

e.  "A former homosexual who has carried on an effective ministry for five years among homosexuals reported, 'I have counseled over three hundred homosexuals and have yet to find one that enjoyed a warm love relationship with his father.'"

f.        Fathers play a significant role in the raising of children in many areas and a father's actions can be critical in preventing his children from becoming both homosexual or lesbian.

4.         Can you cure a Homosexual or a Lesbian?

a.       You cure diseases, but behaviours choices like homosexuality is are changed through freewill.

b.       Homosexuality is not a mental illness.

c.        Homosexuality is not a disease.

d.       Homosexuality is not a determined by DNA.

e.       Homosexuals are made not born.

f.         Gay marriage is an abomination before God.

g.       Homosexuality is a sin. So is adultery!

h.       You cure an adulterer the same way you cure a murderer or a homosexual! Change your behaviour choices!

i.         How do you cure a homosexual? Stop committing the sin of fornication!

j.         Homosexuals need to believe that they can actually change their sexual orientation, but this will require them to realize that the "gay lobby" has been lying to them about going strait.

THE BIBLE CONDEMNS HOMOSEXUAL SEX!

What biopsychiatrists, drug companies and governments say about homosexuality:

1.      "Clinical studies describe that boys with gender identity disorder often have an overly close relationship with their mother and a distant, ambivalent relationship with their father. Stoller argued that the boy who is excessively close to his mother, in absence of the father, may have difficulty in separating himself from the female body and feminine behavior." 

2.      "Because psychiatrists, particularly white male psychiatrists, are homophobic - the American Psychiatric Association (APA) once labelled homosexuality as a "mental illness" or "mental disorder" - and have used forced electroshock on lesbians, trying to coerce them into adopting a heterosexual life style."

3.     Additional factors that have been suggested are parents' indifference to or encouragement of opposite-sex behavior; regular cross- dressing as a young boy by a female; lack of male play-mates during a boy's first years of socialization; excessive maternal protection, with inhibition of rough-and- tumble play; or absence of or rejection by an older male early in life. 

4.      "Physical Appearance: Fridell (1996) concluded that girls with gender identity disorder often were seen as less attractive than those in a control group.

What Causes Homosexuality? 

Returning again to the subject of temperament, I would like to reinforce my statement that not all those with predominant Melancholy temperaments in the arts, etc., are homosexual. I introduced the concept here not to embarrass or burden people with a Melancholy temperament, but to encourage parents of Melancholy children to go out of their way to love them. I have noticed that every homosexual I have encountered or have discussed with other counselors possesses an enormous hunger for love. This powerful drive to love and to attract love is typical not only of homosexuals but of Melancholy's. 

A. Inadequate Parental Relationships 

1.       Parents are easily the most important external force in the life of any child and, as would be suspected, contribute largely to the homosexual or heterosexual predisposition of their children. A professor of psychiatry at one of the nation's leading medical schools stated, "Current research indicates that the family most likely to produce a homosexual comprises a very intimate, possessive and dominating mother and a detached, hostile father. Many mothers of lesbians tend to be hostile and competitive with their daughters. The fathers of female homosexuals seldom appear to play a dominant role in the family and have considerable difficulty being openly affectionate with their daughters."

2.       Most of the new books on homosexuality contain the report by Dr. Irving Bieber, who studied the family backgrounds of 106 male homosexuals. According to his discoveries, eighty-one mothers were dominating, sixty-two were overprotective, sixty-six made the homosexual their favorite child, eighty-two of the fathers spent very little time with their sons, and seventy-nine maintained a detached attitude toward them.22

3.       As important as the father is in the life of a child, even he must take second place to mother during the first three years of life. she feeds the baby at her breast and spends far more time with him in infancy than does his dad. Consequently, mothers actually have more to do with producing a predisposition toward homosexuality than fathers. Two kinds of mothers are particularly harmful-smother mothers and dominating mothers.

B. Smother Mothers

1.       Every child needs love, but few things are worse than an overprotective, smothering affection that is showered on an infant, not for his benefit but for the mother's. Many a love-starved young mother satisfies her love hunger on her child until he is the primary object in her life. The more she bestows her affection, time, and attention on her child, the more she neglects her husband. This may turn him further from her and the child, compounding the problem.

2.       Dr. Howard Hendricks used to say in Family Seminars which he and I held together that ' ' whenever a mother makes her son number one in her life, she begins to raise a pervert. " In other words, it is normal for a boy to be number two in the heart of his mother, for he doesn't feel threatened when he knows father is number one. But when mother and father cannot preserve a love relationship and she makes the child number one, he is in trouble. He may begin to identify with her, take an interest in feminine things, and develop effeminate mannerisms. Such concerns start early in life and are very difficult to break. One veteran homosexual in the counseling room complained that his mother was "overprotective and smothering.'' He illustrated the latter by saying, "She never hesitated to embarrass me. she thought nothing of unzipping my pants to tuck in my shirt. Between that and wiping my nose, she was all over me.''

3.       Throughout history, researchers have repeatedly verified that homosexuals are ''mama's boys" whose mothers doted on them in their youth. Tchaikovsky, Michelangelo, and Freud are notable examples. Insecure mothers who have a need to be needed take out that compulsion on their infant or small child to the detriment of the child's personality. Some call it love, but it is not! In reality, it is a form of selfishness, and it probably constitutes one of the leading causes in the rise of homosexuality.

4.       In recent years it has become fashionable for an unwed mother who heeds the advice of sexual permissivists to raise her child alone. I always wince when I see this, not because a mother can't raise her son alone (my brother and I were raised by a widowed mother, and my brother was only seven weeks old when Father died, so I know it can be done), but most of those girls have the wrong motive. They are usually love-starved girls who want something living to love and often end up "smother loving" a child into a predisposition toward homosexuality.

C. Dominant Mothers

1.       One of the sociological phenomena of our times is the enormous increase in the dominant role of the mother and the renunciation by the father of his responsibility to lead.

2.       In some cases dominance is forced upon women because of an irresponsible husband. But nothing ruins the sexual adjustment of children more surely than an oppressive wife and mother.

3.       Such children build up an intense hostility toward the opposite sex that either makes it difficult for them to show love and affection in marriage or creates a predisposition toward homosexuality.

D. A Passive or Absent Fathers

1.  Father may only be the secondary influence in the life of his children, but since he is second in importance, we should consider him carefully. I have never counseled a homosexual, read one's case history, heard another counselor discuss a client, or listened to the testimony of a former homosexual but that I was informed that the deviant had either a bad relationship with his father or none at all. No doubt some homosexual somewhere has climbed over the positive force of his father's love and masculine role example to become homosexual, but in the many cases I have studied, I cannot name one. A father's most precious gift to his son or daughter is not food, shelter, and education, but love-and he must prove that love by spending time with his child.

2.  A former homosexual, now a minister who is effectively helping homosexuals out of their life style, relates a most traumatic childhood experience that shows the importance of the father. Long before he ever felt a "twinge of homosexuality," he was out in the garage with his father, overhauling the car. From under the car came the commanding voice, "Hand me the crescent wrench." He had no idea what a crescent wrench was, so he replied, "I can't find it." His hostile father erupted in an angry spirit, sprang to his feet, and located it in clear view. Cuffing his son on the side of the head, he called him a vile name, rebuked him for being so stupid, and shouted, "Go into the house and help your mother with the girls' work. You obviously aren't cut out for a man's job. " When a small boy's father claims he is more girl-like than male, what is he to believe? Today, having shed the homosexual practices of many agonizing years, this man is still effeminate in his mannerisms, but he struggles valiantly to be accepted as "straight."

3. Father's love and approval of his manhood is very important to any boy, particularly one who manifests other tendencies which may develop a predisposition toward homosexuality. Dr. Irvin Bieber, a psychiatrist acclaimed by the Miami Herald as "one of the most authoritative students of homosexuality in America," said, "Homosexuals are not born that way; they are made that way largely by their parents. "

4.       According to a nationally known psychiatrist, the background of homosexuals fits a common pattern. Father is frequently absent from the home, and thus Mother turns to the boy as an outlet for her emotional needs. A boy needs to identify with his father's masculinity; we need to bring Father back into the home, and the father and son must spend time together. A former homosexual who has carried on an effective ministry for five years among homosexuals reported, "I have counseled over three hundred homosexuals and have yet to find one that enjoyed a warm love relationship with his father."

5.       The best way to stamp out homosexuality in this country is for parents to get back to the business of making parenthood their priority. Children raised in loving, well-disciplined homes where Mother and Father are themselves good role models for their children rarely become homosexual. Unfortunately, unloved children subjected to the selfish neglect of their parents are vulnerable to a predisposition toward homosexuality. This year divorce may reach 1,100,000, bringing to eleven million the number of children to be raised by one parent. It is estimated that because of divorce, twenty-five to thirty million children up to eighteen years of age will spend a portion of their childhood raised by one parent.

6.       A psychiatrist told me, "Every homosexual I know has come from a broken home." My own experience is not that conclusive but I have found that every homosexual I know came from an unhappy home where fighting and hatred abounded between the parents, who usually proceeded with a divorce.

E. Permissive Childhood Training

1.       The most harmful concept in the field of child raising during the past 100 years has been permissiveness. It is hard to believe that such a destructive doctrine could catch on so quickly and sweep the country with such force. Although thoroughly discredited now, it has wrought havoc on millions. Perhaps its popularity can be attributed to the fact that the discipline of children is burdensome to parents. But only parental discipline will enable young people to grow up to become responsible, self-disciplined adults.

2.       A recent study of criminals indicated that those individuals treated to a well-moderated program of love and discipline in their youth reflected the lowest tendency toward crime. Interestingly enough, the same would be true of homosexuals. I have found in digging into their backgrounds that they were either rejected or pampered as children. I have met only one homosexual who was not a self-indulgent, self-centered, undisciplined individual. The only motivation that seems to make them forceful is their pursuit of sexual gratification and their demand to be accepted by society as "perfectly normal." This lack of discipline makes it easy for many with a predisposition toward homosexuality to take up the practice at the first opportunity, and it is largely the reason they find it so difficult to extricate themselves from it when they finally wake up to the realization it is an "ungay" life style. 

How to Prevent Homosexuality

Parents may be worried about their children's vulnerability to homosexual influences. How can they reduce the chances of future difficulties?

Promote an "open" atmosphere in your home. Children need somewhere to go with their inevitable questions about sexuality. Those who are hushed consistently soon learn that sex is off-limits for discussion. If they experience doubts about their own sexual identity later on, they will avoid talking about their fears.

Give accurate information. Young children may be confused about what homosexuality is — and what it is not. If they like same-sex friends, they may wonder if that makes them "gay." Assure them that you have good friendships with both sexes; it's normal to have close same-sex friends.

Affirm your child's gender. Reinforce gender-appropriate behavior in younger children, and express delight in their masculinity or femininity. Children are wounded by the realization that their parents really wanted a child of the opposite sex; the damage goes even deeper when parents encourage children to adopt opposite-sex qualities and pursuits.

Be generous with physical affection. Some fathers mistakenly believe that giving their son too much affection will warp their boy's sense of masculinity. Exactly the opposite is true. Sons who are liberally hugged by their fathers (or other male authority figures) will have less vulnerability to wrong kinds of physical affirmation from other males.

Build children up in their gender role. Little girls delight to be seen as feminine, such as dressing up for special occasions. Insecure boys can be deeply hurt by parents engaging in name-calling or derogatory remarks such as "You're such a sissy!" Avoid opposite-gender nicknames. Positive reinforcement goes much further than negative comments.

Encourage identification with same-sex role models. Bible heroes, modern-day missionaries, even local sports heroes who exhibit a respectable life-style, can all serve as valuable role models. For single parents raising an opposite-sex child, this element is important. Seek to help your child build relationships with extended family members of his or her gender (aunts, uncles, older cousins, grandparents). Make an extra effort to include your child in activities led by same-sex adults such as Boy Scout or Girl Guide leaders, music teachers, sports coaches or Sunday school teachers.