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Sunday, 1 September 2013

Alert! Sex Predators on the Loose.


The family is the smallest unit in the society but has the biggest impact in the way morality of the society should be. So many stories now abound of child molestation and abuse, molestation and adultery. As parents, fathers and mothers especially, the followings are the critical factors every responsible parents must do to ensure positive and happy family:


•Warn your daughter never to sit on anyone’s laps no matter the relationship even uncles.
 
•Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn, u might need to patiently ask a lot of questions.
 
•Never allow any adult refer to your new born as ‘my wife’ or ‘my husband’
 
•If u don’t teach your children about sex, the society will teach them the wrong values & most likely in very hard ways.



•Never tempt your husband with your sister or friend or else he’d say it’s hers & the devil’s fault
 
•Avoid unnecessary familiarity & make sure you take care of your husband yourself so as not to lead him into temptation
 
•Teach your 3-years olds how to wash their private parts properly & warn them never to allow anyone including u touch those areas. Remember, charity begins at home & with you.

•Whenever your child goes out to play with friends, make you look for a way to find out the kind of play they played together as young people sexually abuse themselves now.
 
•Never force your child to visit any adult he/she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes fond of a particular adult.
 
It's always advisable you go through any new material like cartoons you buy for them before they start seeing it themselves.
 
•Blacklist all materials you think could threaten the sanity of your child i.e. music, movies & musicians & let them understand d value of standing out of the crowd.
 
•Once your child complains about a particular person, don’t keep quiet about it. Take up the case & show you can always defend her!
 
•Avoid getting dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2-years old. Learn to excuse yourself.
 
•If u have to hire a house-help, kindly take them for HIV screening to determine their status, properly interview them and make up your mind to treat them well.

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